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Articles, interviews and true stories of appointments women, couples and women with a past of sexual abuse or vaginismus, had with me.
All names are fictional.
Oer Digitaal Vrouwenblad – sharna.nl
René is a self-employed gigolo who can be booked via a mobile number or via email. We at Oer Digital Women's Magazine called René, and had the following conversation with him.
Dutch newspaper ‘De Telegraaf’: Lisanne
How come Lisanne is bursting with energy again after an appointment with a gigolo? And how is she now?
Iris: “I have faith in the future!”
"A few years ago I was assaulted on New Year's Eve. Two men walked towards me and blocked my way. One man walked around me and grabbed my arms (...). I was frozen with fear and terror and didn't do anything.."
Vaginismus: the story of Merel
"I am now almost 38 years old, in 2 months already......the years have caught up with me. For years I closed my eyes and thought that I could do it all without warmth, love, sex and affection, and that this was just my fate.."
The unplayed violin
She hopes that one day she will meet an experienced violinist who knows exactly how to touch and play the brittle strings, so that she can once again hear her own sounds and learn how to play her own strings..
In a relationship, but book a gigolo anyway
"Sometimes, in between, I like to search in Google for a word. A word that expresses what I feel at that moment. Today I decided to key in the word 'gigolo'.."
Intimacy after death of partner
"Because it had been so long ago, I consciously looked for someone who I knew for sure put my pleasure and experience first: a gigolo. I found the whole idea to be both exciting and useful.."
Virgin: the story of Stephanie
“'I think I can help you', René wrote in his response to the email I had sent him not long before, in which I explained my 'problem'. Words that I read with hope, but also with some scepticism..."
A delightful man…with a price tag
Irene: "I've always had a wish list of things I wanted to do and one of them was hiring a gigolo."
Sexually awakened: what women really want
"Wow……..what pleasure! After a long hesitation and discussion, we took the step to meet René. How did we get there?"
Virgin: the story of Rianne
"When I first approached René, my idea was mainly to learn to allow intimacy, but I had not expected it to turn out like this. I have the feeling that I can finally be there completely. I feel more free than ever and look forward to the next date with René because there is still plenty to discover!"
Flair.nl
A threesome with a gigolo; it was Peter’s (36) greatest wish to see his girlfriend José (35) having sex with another man. This other guy was René (37). Separately, they shared their experience.
Vaginismus: the story of ‘blossom’
"I thought to myself, besides all that talking with a sexologist, there must be someone who can help me. Maybe an experienced gigolo?! I then googled vaginism + gigolo.....and bingo!"
Intimacy after sexual abuse
I am writing this review in the hope that this will give other women the courage to take the step and meet with René
marieclaire.nl
Marieke (34) had little experience with sex and wanted to know what it feels like to have an orgasm. After an internet search, she came across gigolo René.
Vriendin
Irene: "I hired gigolo Rene. I divorced and I always had things on my wish list.....".